If she so obviously can't stand having sex and refuses any sort of counseling, then I would strongly suggest that you don't ask her for sex any more, spare her the agony of having to get herself drunk to meet your needs in that area. The biggest cancer killer will take your breath away. Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below. Not buzzed, but drunk. Faded love , Marriage problems , Sex. My daughter actually told me "dad you should have just screwed her and dealt with it". If you go to the pub, or drink over dinner, refrain from sex until the next morning.
I understand the new issues with a child and the changes they bring, sex is naturally being lowered on the scale. Question for the author: November 3, at 3: Who is this written for? I was the high desire spouse for sure.
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Kind of hard to believe a woman when she says she finds you sexy but doesn't act on it unless she can't see or talk straight isn't it? When she wants the paycheck she tricks you into having a kid and that doesn't sound anything like your case. So I encourage you to work on yourself regarding taking care of your hurt feelings and sense of loss and deprivation, on your own get counseling for yourself if necessary and to do this out of compassion for her, because this is the marriage that you have - she has drawn a line in the sand saying she is unwilling to get counseling at this moment. All you can do is give her information on how you feel and that you would like to work on the relationship. It isn't true that she isn't comfortable about being touched in a sexual way because you guys had a great sex life when you first met. Hopefully she had an idea